Dating Advice That Will Work For You

Since 2013, Heart Insider has become a recognized authority on dating, relationships, and online romance.  We believe there is a better way to get the results you want from your dating life. A more valuable, more fulfilling way where men don’t have to rely on tricks or luck to attract women they’re interested in. We’re obsessively passionate about it.

Our large team of dating and relationship coaches provide proven strategies and advice to our thousands of dating clients. All of the advice and information we provide is based on our own unique experiences, trial-and-error, and decades of practice. We strive to provide the most impactful and up-to-date advice that will work for you regardless of race, geography, and age.

Our team of dating experts have been featured in hundreds of publications around the world and in many languages. It can be extremely challenging to determine what quality dating advice is because it’s constantly changing and evolving. 

The Mission of Heart Insider

Dating can be rough! We know how challenging it can be to find dating success and it’s our mission to provide the best, most actionable dating and relationship advice possible. Our team of experienced dating and relationship coaches provides genuine advice from their years of personal dating experience and experience coaching others. 

How We’re Different

We practice what we preach. All of the dating and relationship information provided here has been gained first-hand by real experts including:

Dating advice provided by REAL experts

We have a large and very experienced team of dating experts that is constantly trying out new approaches to dating success. These are men and women with deep experience that are very passionate about helping others get the results they desire. 

The most thorough dating app reviews out there

We are very serious about finding the best dating apps and sites out there. Online dating has become such a core component of modern dating that it’s absolutely crucial to spend your time on the best dating apps and sites. We are constantly trying and retrying dating apps and have an extremely thorough process. 

We spend weeks and months using every dating app we review and are signing up for both the free and paid versions. You will not find more dedicated reviewers and more thorough dating app reviews anywhere.

Heart Insider Team

James Anderson - Founder
Dating Coach

Bennet is a well respected, internationally known dating and relationship coach. Bennet loves to help men find incredible success with women while still being authentic to themselves. He has helped build a team of dating experts with the same passion and they strive daily to provide the most actionable and valuable dating advice anywhere.

Bennet has a Master’s Degree from Northwestern University, a Bachelor’s Degree from MSU, and has been featured in many major publications including AskMen, Best Life Online, Zoosk, and StyleCaster.


Dr Kristie Overstreet writer
Clinical Psychologist & Dating Advisor

Dr. Em Chen combines her expertise in clinical psychology with her passion for understanding modern relationships. With a Ph.D. in Psychology from Stanford, Dr. Chen has worked extensively on research surrounding romantic attachment and emotional intelligence. She has spent over a decade helping people build fulfilling relationships and has been featured in major publications, such as Psychology Today, Bustle, and Refinery29.


Sex & Relationship Educator

Nicole Harper combines her expertise in positive psychology and relationship dynamics to help people create meaningful connections in the digital age. As a licensed therapist and dating coach with 8 years of experience, she specializes in helping busy professionals heal from past relationship patterns and build healthy new ones. Her engaging HeartInsider column “Love, Mindfully” offers a refreshing blend of emotional intelligence tools and practical dating strategies. Nicole’s approach emphasizes self-discovery as the foundation for authentic relationships, helping readers understand themselves better while navigating the modern dating landscape. Her insights have been featured in Well+Good, Refinery29, and Marie Claire, and her online program “Conscious Dating™” has helped thousands find love without compromising their values. Beyond writing, she hosts monthly dating workshops and retreats that combine mindfulness practices with relationship skill-building, earning praise for their transformative impact on participants’ dating lives.


Nicole Atkins writer
Board Certified Relationship Therapist

With over 20 years of experience, Dr. Elaine Hartman is a licensed therapist specializing in relationship counseling and communication skills. She holds a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy and is dedicated to bridging the gap between therapeutic practices and everyday relationship advice. Dr. Hartman’s insights have been featured in The Atlantic, Psychology Today, and Well+Good.


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Dating & Social Dynamics Specialist

John Grant is an acclaimed dating coach known for his practical, down-to-earth advice on social dynamics. With a background in behavioural science, he has dedicated the past 15 years to helping men overcome social anxiety and build confidence. He’s been widely featured on platforms like Men’s Journal, Elite Daily, and GQ, and his teachings focus on genuine connection over tactics.


Shani Jay
Dating Expert & Empowerment Coach

Jessica Vargas is an empowerment coach with a passion for helping women boost their confidence and self-love. She holds a Master’s in Counseling Psychology from UCLA and has been featured in top lifestyle publications. Jessica’s unique coaching approach focuses on empowering her clients to create healthy boundaries and fulfilling relationships. Her writing can be found in Cosmopolitan, Thought Catalog, and Bustle.


Joe Elvin
Mindset & Personal Growth Coach

James Monroe is a mindset coach who has dedicated his career to helping people develop healthier relationships and personal growth habits. With a degree in Human Development from UC Berkeley, James has helped thousands of men improve their self-esteem and dating lives by building genuine connections. His insights have been published in Entrepreneur, Thrive Global, and AskMen.


Sex & Relationship Educator

Nicole Harper combines her expertise in positive psychology and relationship dynamics to help people create meaningful connections in the digital age. As a licensed therapist and dating coach with 8 years of experience, she specializes in helping busy professionals heal from past relationship patterns and build healthy new ones. Her engaging HeartInsider column “Love, Mindfully” offers a refreshing blend of emotional intelligence tools and practical dating strategies. Nicole’s approach emphasizes self-discovery as the foundation for authentic relationships, helping readers understand themselves better while navigating the modern dating landscape. Her insights have been featured in Well+Good, Refinery29, and Marie Claire, and her online program “Conscious Dating™” has helped thousands find love without compromising their values. Beyond writing, she hosts monthly dating workshops and retreats that combine mindfulness practices with relationship skill-building, earning praise for their transformative impact on participants’ dating lives.


Featured Publications & Accomplishments

The Heart Insider team has written for or been recommended by Cosmopolitan, Life Hacker, Tinder, Zoosk, Yahoo, Women’s Health, Shape, AskMen, HerCampus, and Best Life Online for expertise in dating and relationship related topics.

Want To Talk To Us? We’d Love To Hear From You

The Heart Insider team is always happy to provide our dating and relationship expertise or be quoted for articles if we’re available. Additionally, some of our team is available for speaking engagements, podcasts, and events.

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