Singles in Oakland may be hemmed in with a bevy of lovely women. But narrowing these ladies to a few viable MILFs in Oakland can still be a challenge.
Luckily, there are locations and Oakland MILF bars where you can find attractive older vixens to talk to and flirt with.
The Best Places to Meet Oakland MILFs
We added more than 30 cool venues where you can meet and date beautiful Oakland MILFS. Bars, clubs, cafes, and even grocery stores. Yet, we still want to kickstart our guide with a shortlist of four.
Why?
Because we appreciate your time, and some of our readers may not be able to dive through a +3k-word post just to find a place to meet women (yes, chicks are important but so is life).
So we’ll kick off our guide with the best two venues to meet MILFs in Oakland along with two of our favorite dating apps. Begin with them, and if you find out that you need more then you know where to go.
Here they are:
@districtoak
District for a great night with Oakland MILFs
Perched in the historic Washington Street is District, a trendy bar in Oakland known for its house-made charcuterie and tasty drinks. Not to mention, an interesting crowd of older women, looking for after-hour fun.
With an extensive menu of wine and whiskey, the place can get really full easily. So, booking is essential in District. Gather some friends, make a night out of it and you’ll find that the sultry MILF in Oakland will be doing the same.
District is a great place for a ladies' night out. And what better way to hook up than two sexy tables on a similar mission. Their sharable platters are a great way to mix and match alongside the bevy of beauties as well. Drop by often enough and you'll see why it's one of the best Oakland hookup bars we've found.
District is all about casual coolness and sophisticated charm, so be sure to be friendly. Play your cards right and you will fit in and be flirting it up with yummy mommies in no time.
The Easiest Way to Meet a MILF Has Been Online
Almost every single woman is using one or more dating apps today. Free attention, fun conversations, and easy dates, who doesn’t want this?
If you’re not getting dates from dating apps then you’re the one to blame not the stupid algorithm or Tinder’s ELO system. A couple of good photos along with a decent bio and fun texts and you’re all set up for a steady stream of dates. We dropped a whole course on how to get 1-2 dates from Tinder each week (check it here) so I won’t go through lots of details.
But you also need to use the right apps. Some apps are useless and charge you more for less. While others work better in certain areas or serve a certain type of people. For example, the women on Bumble are more relationship-oriented than those on Tinder. So pay attention to the apps you’re using because app selection matters.
Below are our two most favorite apps when it comes to dating MILFs in Oakland – and any major US city. Check them out now:
AFF is the superior way to meet MILFs that ONLY want to get lucky (try it free)
We love a good site that can help you get laid. But sadly, way too many sites promise to help you out, only to connect you with fake profiles and women who want serious relationships. Now if you’re serious about your quest to get into the pants of a sexy Oakland MILF, look no further than AFF.
AFF isn’t your typical dating site. It’s one that exists solely for the purpose of helping people find casual relationships. No matter how vanilla or kinky your preferences are, you’ll meet some like-minded ladies on the site.
If you want to meet MILFs for no-strings fun without all the baggage AFF is going to be the best option for most guys!
MILFs love AFF because it gives them a chance to be intimate with someone without the commitment. They don’t have the time to maintain a relationship, so a quick, thrilling action is all they need. And if that’s what you’re after, then AFF will help your dream become a reality.
Meet lots of sexy mamas from the bright side of the bay by giving AFF a shot!
Single MILFs who want long-term relationships on eHarmony are easy to find (try it here)
A lot of single moms don’t have the time to go out and do conventionally social activities. They have a lot of responsibilities, so it’s simply not practical for them to head out to local bars and cafes to meet potential dates. Even if they do meet a handful of potential dates, it takes a lot of time to get to know their dates well enough to see if he’s relationship material. And we bet you know how hard it can be to win over a MILF with your charms alone!
To help you and all the MILFs in Oakland find great matches, eHarmony has a solution. They have a very thorough signup process that helps you meet compatible singles. You can mention your hobbies and interests as well as plans for the future and how open you are to dating women with kids. That way, the MILFs on eHarmony can easily tell that you could be a great potential partner.
eHarmony makes the “getting to know you” phase so much easier by facilitating communication between you and the MILF you’re into.
Now if you’re looking for some real commitment, you’ll be glad to know that 4% of all marriages in the U.S. started on eHarmony. And of all the marriages that start online, eHarmony is responsible for 75% of them. That and more make up all the reasons eHarmony is always at the top of our annual list of the best sites for meeting MILFs.
@kontikioakland
The Kon-Tiki for playful bar bites, tropical drinks, and hot mature ladies
The Kon-Tiki has remained a steady neighborhood favorite since opening in 2017. Always featuring bar bites and tropical drinks in a lively lounge, the bar also boasts an eclectic rotation of rums.
But the main focus is the influx of Mrs. Robinsons lounging in this MILF bar in Oakland late afternoon. Usually, downtown female executives stop by Kon-Tiki to unwind, eat fine food, and have a sip of Caribbean rum.
Kon-Tiki is a bit smaller than your typical California bar. But the chances of brushing elbows with the hot mommas nearby are extremely high.
So, dress well, spray some fragrance and get your friendly self to Kon-Tiki for an experience like no other. The place is open from Monday to Saturday though we personally recommend going on a Friday for a happy MILF hunting
@carefree_kris
Our Favorite Bars and Clubs to Find Single MILFs in Oakland
Take a quick tour through our options on where to meet the MILF in Oakland and you will not be disappointed. A few clicks, a few scans and you will be out the door and onto your first sexy destination in seconds.
From Luka’s Taproom to the District, here are the best places to meet Oakland MILFs for some mixing and mingling. Drop by these spots and MILF bar in Oakland and find the hot mama of your dreams. Help a friend and share with us how your journey went in the comments below.
- Luka's Taproom and Lounge - 2221 Broadway
- District - 827 Washington St
- The Fat Lady - 201 Washington St
- Liege Spirits Lounge - 481 9th St
- The Graduate - 6202 Claremont Ave
- 2101 Club - 2101 MacArthur Blvd
- Somar Bar and Lounge - 1727 Telegraph Ave
- George and Walt’s – 5445 College Ave
- Hotsy Totsy Club – 601 San Pablo Ave
- Kona Club - 4401 Piedmont Ave
Apps Dating Coaches Actually Recommend To Meet MILFs
If you're looking to meet a single MILF you need to try out a couple of these apps. In a post-covid world the majority of women are meeting guys online. If you're not where they can find you you're going to miss out big. Try these first if you want real results:
| Site | Our Experience | Our Rating | Free Trial Link |
|---|---|---|---|
Best Hookup Site For MILFs  | Experience Highlights
| 9 | Try AFF For Free |
Best For Relationships  | Experience Highlights
| 9 | Try eHarmony |
2nd Best For Hookups  | Experience Highlights
| 8 | Try Passion |
@nikki_xoxobeauty
Great Ways to Meet MILFs in Oakland During the Days
Cafes are great for meeting MILFs who work remotely.
Grocery stores are great for meeting single moms.
Malls are where you can meet fancy MILFs – the ones with plastic surgeries and alimony money.
And gyms/parks are where you go to meet active MILFs, or those who call their dogs weird names.
Notice that I didn’t mention the words "bar", "club", or "lounge".
And notice also that you’ll be saving so much money, time, and effort, approaching Oakland MILFs during the day than in bars at night.
Just try it and see how it goes. With some persistence, you’ll be able to crash your social anxiety in 4-8 weeks.
We’ve been there and we know how it works.
- Left Coast Power Yoga - 3702 Grand Ave
- Nest Yoga - 3976 Piedmont Ave
- In the Groove Studios - 580 14th St
- Caffe 817 - 817 Washington St
- Awaken Cafe & Roasting - 1429 Broadway
- Oakland-Grand Lake Farmers Market - Splash Pad Park, 746 Grand Ave
- Foothill Square Shopping Center - 10700 MacArthur Blvd #200
@davaughnmona
Our Guide to Dating MILFs in Oakland
Now that we showed you how and where to meet those hot Oakland ladies, it’s time to show you where to date them.
The place doesn’t really matter when dating young girls. Any café will do actually.
It slightly matters with MILFs because if they see you as boyfriend/husband material then they will partially judge you based on how much money you make (i.e., how much money you spend on the date).
However, I don’t like to believe in this even if it was true. From my experience, it’s 90+ percent personality 10+ percent the venue. I once had a first date with a Spanish MILF where we were hopping from one garden chair to another and we had a happy ending. So, emphasize too much on the place and focus on presenting yourself in the best way possible.
Or at least, try one of these readily-picked recommendations.
First Date Recommendations
Like I said, anywhere will do as long as you bring the fun to the table. However, if you have a set of places to choose from then always opt for a bar. They’re chill, intimate and inexpensive – unless you’re taking her to a fancy lounge which is fine too but you gotta prepare your Visa.
Below are some of our top picks for Oakland intimate bars:
- Bellanico - 4238 Park Blvd
- Lake Chalet - 1520 Lakeside Dr
- Mad Oak Bar - 135 12th St
- A16 - 5356 College Ave
- Enoteca Molinari - 5474 College Ave
Second Date Recommendations
The second date venue will depend on how the first one goes. It can be anywhere from your place to another bar or lounge, it’s up to your judgment. Still, we noticed that some men like to try new experiences on the second date – which I don’t highly recommend. So we listed a few spots you can hit with your Oakland MILF to enjoy a shared experience together.
Here they are:
- Comedy Oakland - 1628 Webster St
- Reinhardt Redwood Regional Park - 7867 Redwood Rd
- Plank - 98 Broadway
- Oakland Museum of California - 1000 Oak St
- Emporium SF - 616 Divisadero St
Map and Dating Guide For Meeting MILFs in Oakland
We wanted to make things even better so we put all of our recommendations for meeting MILFs in Oakland into the map below. If you want to find a lot of success meeting MILFs it will definitely help to try out multiple spots on any given night. Give them a shot:
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